Are you suffering from gender violence? | Women and feminism

If you are going or have gone through any of these experiences, you are facing a gender violence situation:

He silences you.
He's not interested in your feelings.
He ridicules you in front of your friends and family.
He monitors your mobile or computer without your knowledge or makes you show him what you’re doing with them.
He belittles the way you dress or tells you what you have to wear.
He makes hurtful comments and says they're jokes.
He is jealous.
He blames you for the things that happen to him or turn out badly for him.
He is constantly suspicious of you.
He uses emotional blackmail on you to achieve what he wants.
He pressures you so you only spend time with him.

He belittles your opinions and tells you to shut up and that you don’t know what you're talking about.
He shouts at you.
He hits you and says they are signs of affection.
He tells you you're always doing things to make him jealous.
He hits the wall, furniture or objects when he gets angry.
He destroys one of your personal items.
He destroys an object from a friend or family member who is important to you.
He pushes you.
He blames you for all the rows and tension.
He gets angry out of all proportion for little things.
You avoid his getting angry however you can.

He doesn’t let you meet up with your friends and family.
You feel isolated.
He argues with a female or male friend because he’s jealous.
He forces you to have sexual relations you do not want and/or when you do not want them.
He grabs you strongly by the neck.
He threatens you with objects or arms.
He threatens to kill you.

How do you know if you suffer from gender violence?